Care packages: General guide & advice

Care great are an amazing treat to give your service member.

It can feel hard to know where to start. Not everyone is great with Pinterest style, fancy packages from scratch. And though those are nice sometimes, a lot of time you sailor would love to receive the basics or a snack box—this is especially true while deployed.

 

There are a few things to keep in mind when sending a care package. Let’s over the general rules first.

Do not include:

  1. No care packages while in bootcamp (letters are okay & encouraged).

  2. Prohibited items:

    1. alcohol

    2. carbonated drinks

    3. cigarettes

    4. drugs/narcotics

    5. fireworks

    6. flammable items

    7. lithium batteries

    8. pornographic images

    9. byproducts

  3. Postal service restrictions:

    1. no aerosols

    2. airbags

    3. dry ice

    4. fresh fruits and vegetables

    5. nail polish

    6. perfume

  4. No perishable goods

  5. Avoid sending big things - they have limited space. Keep it small

  6. Don’t overstuff the box

  7. It is not recommended to mix non-food items and food items

  8. Do not pack food items in glass containers

  9. Use sturdy packaging and seal everything

  10. Consider shipping time (Most packages to the Middle East take two weeks or longer — allow five weeks for delivery during the holidays)

 

Now that we’ve been over the rules, let’s go over the steps to send a care package.

How to send a care package (4 steps):

Step 1: Figure out your service member’s military address

“Military addresses are a little different from what you’re used to. A basic civilian address may look like this:

John Smith

Street Address 

City, State Zip

A military member’s service address is structured similarly, but usually looks like this: 

John Smith

PSC 101 Box 200

Camp Swift

APO, AE 10101-1001

The number one question we get has to do with confusion over this format. We'll summarize them breifly here, and more in depth below.

Name Line:

Like normal addresses, this is just the name of the service member.

Unit Line(s):

In the example above, these would be the second and third lines of the address. Your service member will provide you with this information. Lots of times, it just looks like jumbled letters and numbers, but enter it as instructed. Military branches love their acronyms, and military addresses are no different. 

City/State Lines:

This last section is what normally throws people off. The APO/FPO part is just the city, while the AP/AE, etc., is the state. The country is always United States. Below is a list of the most common acronyms you'll see and what they stand for.  Keep this in mind if the address seems unfamiliar.

AA: Armed Forces America

AE: Armed Forces Europe (includes the now-defunct "AM" designation, which covers the Middle East) 

AP: Armed Forces Pacific

APO: Army Post Office

CMR: Community Mail Room

DPO: Diplomatic Post Office

FPO: Fleet Post Office

OMDC: Official Mail Distribution Center

PSC: Postal Service Center

UMR: Unit Mail Room

Above all, trust that your military member has given you the right address. The military is very good at getting the packages where they need to go, even with little information. All you need to do is get it to the unit, and they’ll know who to give it to, usually by name. So if you don’t know the exact division, and your service member hasn’t given it, don’t worry!

Zip Code:

The numbers at the end are just the military zip code. It will either be a 9 or 5 digit zip code, just like in civilian addresses.” -herocarepackages.com

Step 2: Locate the proper form at the post office or print it off the USPS website

The post office will have a form called a Customs Declaration and Dispatch Note. It’ll most likely be at one of the desks in the lobby, otherwise, you can ask a postal worker for one. This is the form you need to fill out in order to ship your package.  

This is the form. You will fill it out and attach it on the top of the box you are using to send your care package.

Step 3: Fill out the form

Line 1: Addressee’s Name (who you are sending this to)

Line 2: Business (this line is typically left blank but you can use it to put the ship’s name)

Line 3: Address

Line 4: Postcode & city

Line 5: State/province & country

A quick note:

Don’t worry about anything on the right hand side, it’s for commercial shipments. Focus on filling out the left side as fully and carefully as possible. All that will be left now is to fill out the customs section.

Step 4: Fill out customs information

Be very specific. The post office does not want a vague description, if you put “gift” or “care package” in the description it will not be allowed.

Unless you know the individual weight of each item, wait to fill out the weight section until you go to the desk to have it weighed. The individual weight of each item must add up to the total weight of the package.

The biggest error on the customs form is forgetting to sign and date the bottom.

You’re all set, all that’s left is to bring you package to the postal worker and pay.

 

Phew. We’ve finally gone through the instructions and general rules — time to talk about some ideas to include.

some general things to include in your care package:

  1. Necessities

  2. Snacks

  3. Entertainment

  4. Personalized items

  5. Photos and notes

 

Personally, I found it helpful to ask what my service member had been needing or wanting. You never know what necessities they might be running low on, if they are bored and are craving some specific entertainment, or if they have some snacks they are craving due to ship food getting old.

A surprise is nice, but communicating with the sailor about their specific wants and needs is sometimes better.

 

Personal recommendations

Keep it fun, cost effective, & Simple!

I found as time went on, that it was not only cost effective, but also saved a lot of time and effort to send items to the sailor directly — instead of putting a care package together from scratch every time.

The best way I found to do this was through Amazon.

There you can find various kinds of care packages, and it’s a one-stop location to find everything your sailor needs at the click of a button.

Amazon also simplifies the mailing process significantly. With lots of little kids, this was really helpful to me.

Not everyone has the time, patience, money, or skill to put together and ship out care packages frequently.

 
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Snack care packages

Gift care packages for men

gift care packages for women

Toiletries care packages

For men

 

For women

Neutral toiletries package

 

I hope this helps. If you have any ideas or things to add — always let us know in the “suggestions” tab or comment below! We welcome all ideas and advice.

Thank you and happy holidays!

 

Written by Tressa Bergsma (wife of a navy vet)
sources:
https://www.usps.com/ship/shipping-restrictions.htm
https://www.militaryonesource.mil/relationships/support-community/sending-a-military-care-package/
https://www.herocarepackages.com/homefront/mailing-a-military-care-package
https://www.thesoldiersproject.org/what-not-to-send-in-a-military-care-package/

 
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